Isn't how hilarious how we can be?
There are some issues we disagree, based on our criteria. And there are things we support, because we are doing it too.
As the years go by, our inner benchmark changes, our criteria of certain behaviors changes--- what we used to disagree, we may now agree with it. What we used to be so supportive of, has become a taboo.
After all, a bench mark is just a guide. We can stick to it religiously or going beyond it, and i say--- eventually we can remove this criteria. Living according to rule and regulation only shows that we're not able to stand independently on our own.
Just like a child can be really good and obedient by with his parents around. And wild and crazy when she's he's away from home. She's/ He's behaviors is dependent on the fear from his parents, and because she/ he loves them. But when she's he's else somewhere, everything flips over.
And the criteria shifts from here to there. Disallows to allows.
I've always got nagged at for wearing black by my mum, but i still wear them day in day out. And when the time she's going to wear something black, she suggested that the color is fine for certain events.
And soon, release the benchmark, if they are going to keep shifting, it loses function.
There are some issues we disagree, based on our criteria. And there are things we support, because we are doing it too.
As the years go by, our inner benchmark changes, our criteria of certain behaviors changes--- what we used to disagree, we may now agree with it. What we used to be so supportive of, has become a taboo.
After all, a bench mark is just a guide. We can stick to it religiously or going beyond it, and i say--- eventually we can remove this criteria. Living according to rule and regulation only shows that we're not able to stand independently on our own.
Just like a child can be really good and obedient by with his parents around. And wild and crazy when she's he's away from home. She's/ He's behaviors is dependent on the fear from his parents, and because she/ he loves them. But when she's he's else somewhere, everything flips over.
And the criteria shifts from here to there. Disallows to allows.
I've always got nagged at for wearing black by my mum, but i still wear them day in day out. And when the time she's going to wear something black, she suggested that the color is fine for certain events.
And soon, release the benchmark, if they are going to keep shifting, it loses function.
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